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If you are on this page I want to start by acknowledging the devastating chaos of emotions you are currently swimming in. Infidelity or an affair in a relationship you committed to, not only shatters the foundation of the relationship, it can fracture your sense of self as well. The betrayal often leaves partners feeling devastated, confused, and in tremendous pain. No matter which partner you are - the faithful or unfaithful.
At Dove + Wolf, I understand the profound impact that infidelity has on marriages and relationships. As a sex-positive licensed professional counselor, I'm here to help you navigate this journey of healing and recovery whether that means you stay together or separate.. My aim is to empower you in making informed decisions about your future together or on your own..
Understanding the Pain of Infidelity
Infidelity often results in deep emotional pain and betrayal trauma. The betrayed partner may experience feelings of anger, sadness, anxiety, and even shame, while the unfaithful partner may grapple with guilt, regret, and the consequences of their actions. This complex emotional landscape can be overwhelming. Couples find it essential to seek professional support to facilitate healing and restore trust.
Digging Deeper
Infidelity can be the outward sign that something has been off within your relationship for some time. It often highlights deeper emotional issues for a couple. Our work together will help you identify and address these underlying problems, fostering a healthier dynamic moving forward regardless of the status of the partnership.
Rebuilding Trust
Trust can be restored through transparency, accountability, and a consistent effort to demonstrate commitment to the relationship. At Dove + Wolf, I'll guide you through this process, helping you develop strategies for rebuilding trust over time, taking accountability for roles played to get the relationship to this point, and to better understand the outside forces that brought you to this place.
Establishing honest dialogue is crucial for rebuilding trust with your partner. During therapy I help to create a safe space for both of you to express your feelings and needs without fear of judgment. Being able to communicate to your partner your hopes, fears, boundaries and hurt is paramount to moving on..
Time for Tough Decisions
Deciding whether to stay with your partner or part ways after infidelity is a deeply personal choice. In my sessions I provide a non-judgmental space for you to explore your feelings and options. I am not married to any particular outcome - no pun intended.
Reflecting on your relationship and the potential for growth and safety can aid in your decision-making process. Identifying markers of that potential and your safety is an important part of being able to make an informed decision. A commitment to change, transparency, and identifying unhealthy patterns can significantly influence your choice to stay or go.
Next Steps
If you and your partner want to learn more about the therapy services I offer - contact me today for a complimentary 15-minute consultation. Or feel free to make an appointment if you are ready to get started. Additionally, Dove + Wolf hosts a couples retreat with a sexological bodyworker where you can navigate intimacy with ease, prioritizing your emotional well-being and feeling truly empowered to express your needs and desires.